What's the purpose of being gay in a religion that is intolerant of your ual preference?

I think that this is proof that ity is something that you can't control, but that you can still love God and be loved by Him in return, despite what "theology" tells you to the contrary. If you have a desire to have a closer relationship with God, should that somehow go away because you are attracted to people of the same ? I wish that more people realized that all they are doing by being so hateful toward gays and s are driving a wedge between them and their God, and that if anyone is going to be judged in the hereafter, it will not be the people who diligently sought His face, but those who would try to push them away from Him.